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The Rules of Gift-Giving at Weddings

What is a wedding without its gifts? Pretty boring, I would say. Whether for the couple or for the guests, giving wedding gifts is a way of showing love, appreciation and support. That’s one of the reasons why choosing tokens and giveaways are often tricky. To select a gift wisely, one must first get to know the background of those who will receive it. Here are some tips for those busy gift-givers.
 
Gifts for the Newlyweds
 
Perhaps the best gift to give to newlyweds is something that can be chucked at each other when they finally have that first marital row. Kidding aside, the best gifts to give are often practical ones. First take a look at some of the things that any couple would definitely need in the long run.
 
The thought of gifting utility items such as crockery, cutlery, glasses and other household gizmos and appliances may seem a tad dreary but they are sure to be much appreciated when the newlyweds are setting up their very first home.
 
If you know that the bride and groom already have a fully equipped home, then you could think about giving something that you know they’d both like. Something a bit artistic? If you know the couple well enough, you could gift them with something that would remind them of the things that they love about each other.
 
Gifts for Guests
 
Traditionally, the bridal couple will also present gifts to their guests to thank them for honouring their special day with their presence. While all guests will go home with a wedding favour, some guests who proffered a lot of help during the wedding preparation deserve something special. Both gifts should be chosen with a lot of care as they will serve as the only reminders when all the excitement of the wedding has settled down.
 
How Much Should you Spend on Wedding Gifts?
 
Two words pretty much answer this question: Just enough. You don’t need to spend everything in a single go and that goes for both the hosts and the guests. Whatever the gifts you choose you give, make sure that they are well within your budget constraints. While the thought of giving the newlyweds a refrigerator may seem a nice gesture, it most certainly won’t be appreciated if this was bought at great expense. For one thing, it will make the recipients feel obligated to receive it and it will leave you feeling in debt for a long time afterwards.
 
To Give or not to Give a Wedding Gift?
 
Even if you cannot make it to the actual ceremony, give a gift anyway. Through this, the newlywed couple will know that you care for their future together and the gesture itself will be much appreciated.